Yes it is true that every relationship has its own charm in the beginning. Giving gifts and and showing your love sentiments for your loved ones on daily basis. You have a warm feeling of love and affection for yourloved one around you. Your time with your partner is really precious. But its not charming for long time due to some reasons which ends up in broken relationship. Things which seems enjoyable turned into annoying things. Your all commitments towards your love starts disappearing. Here we are presenting some signs which shows that your relation is heading towards downfall.
#1. Finds excuses to avoid talking about life
It’s great when couples open up about their lives and themselves to each other. It means that you’re aware of each other’s struggles and hard times. But, if he shrugs you off lately it’s time to sit down and think about where you are headed in the relationship. These are clear indications when you question him about his day and he answers it with a word or two.
#2. He doesn’t want to talk about the future
Eventually you want to know where things are headed. In the beginning, you might not want to talk about the future and that’s generally acceptable. However, that shouldn’t be the case if you’re in for long. If suddenly, he doesn’t want to talk about your future, that’s a sign he is not seeing a future with you.
#3. He has stopped paying attention
The person who had literally put you as their centre of universe in the past, now no longer minds your presence. You feel like you can never do enough to deserve their attention. He always pretends to be busy and doesn’t pay attention. He doesn’t pay attention to the way dress up or look or what you’re interested in. If this is happening with you, he’s reconsidering.
#4. You feel like walking on eggshells
If you are always thinking what will he say or how he will react to little things. And you’re not sure when he’ll explode or when he will listen then he not understanding you anymore and you will start feeling as if like you are walking on eggshells.
#5. Shows lack of trust
Things don’t look that sunny anymore if he continuously asks you who you’re going with, who’s that friend at work, or if he can have your mobile phone’s password. If he continually expresses that he doesn’t like your company and questions you too much.
#6. Not concerned about mending relationship
If anyone of you hurt the other person, you would apologize and make up for it in the beginning .You guys use to had date nights, Netflix and chill nights but suddenly now he is not interested in any of these things then you are going to face some kindda trouble soon.
#7. He runs for the hills if you confront him
You’ve been noticing a change and you decide to confront him about his behaviour. Instead of listening to you and reassuring you, he either denies it, ignores it, gets angry or just doesn’t take you seriously. He is not ready to accept the change in his behaviour and the fact that it’s emotionally destroying you.
#8.He snaps at you with little or no regard
He has begun to fight a lot often. Yells at you and lets you down. The same person who would spend days apologizing for a fight now suddenly starts to say hurtful things without a hint of guilt. He snaps at you for little things and shows no regard for your feelings. This will inevitably lead to the end of the relationship.
#9. His friends have become hostile towards you
Same friends that had become great friends of yours, who would come over to party. If they have begun to act hostile towards you, it’s time to evaluate. Find out if it’s your behaviour which has caused the mess or is it your partner.
#10. He gets annoyed when you try to be cute with him
The relationship has turned sour if your partner gets annoyed on little things, makes fun of you for trying and plainly gets annoyed. Although at the start of the relations you found their quirks unique and adorable. But now, things are suddenly quite the opposite.
#11. Doesn’t stand up for you
In a healthy relationship, you should be able to stand up for each other. Support each other when someone tries to spread negativity or develop misunderstandings between you. Stand up and fight for each other in one of you is being wronged. If this sounds strange to you, your relationship is headed in the wrong direction.
#12. His plans don’t involve you
That is a red flag if he plans a holiday without you and until its final, he doesn’t even tell you, surely you ought to talk to him. Certinly guys can have their own time but if you are totatally excluded then its a major concern.
#14.He has stopped putting efforts for special occasions
Valentine’s day has no flowers or candle light dinners. You don’t celebrate each other’s birthday with that enthusiasm anymore. You don’t dress up for each other. You’ve started to look at these occasions as burden. Eventually, you’ve stopped expecting anything from your partner.